Some are anxious to get married but not easy to find his/her friend. While others may have a plan or other conditions that made them decide not to marry.
There are many variations of answers when asked, "why not marry?" As described above. Some people choose better late than hasty but wrong.
There are six common reasons why it's hard to find a life partner. Of course this view is limited.
1. Too idealistic. Usually this is because of the influence that parents have high expectations on their son or daughter. For example, parents require their children to marry a spouse of the tribes. There is also asking his son married the daughter of the same family social status, and others. But unfortunately, the child does not have enough skills to get along. Interaction is limited, so he had trouble getting a girlfriend's parents as expected.
2. Because the concept and poor self-esteem (inferior). They are usually insecure judgmental and blame themselves. For example, "I was stupid, which one wants me." Or blame yourself and say, "Ah, how could he want with me that this poor." Another person said to himself, "Ah, I do not deserve to be his girlfriend." These feelings of inferiority make friends do not feel comfortable hanging out with you.
3. The rebellious spirit. Such an attitude is formed because the person sees his parents' marriage "sick". She watched her mother suffer for the act of the father, the abusive and selfish. As a result, she felt that marriage was not a pleasant thing.
4. Because it has a personality of "anti-social". Usually young people are very experienced childhood abuse from his father. Eventually he grew up as a rough guy, likes to insult people (like his father). As a result, many are reluctant daughter's close friend or friends.
5. Because it is less fashionable, both in dress and others. Sometimes required the use of perfumes, especially if you have a problem with body odor. About clothes and do not necessarily have to be expensive relative. But comfortable when seen and not ancient, but still polite.
6. There also are difficult to get a girlfriend and a mate, for being too passive resignation alias. Just hoping, waiting for the Lord will send. Pray but no effort. Of course this is not possible. To get your spouse should try to get along as well as creative as possible to choose a friend.